Sunday, August 17, 2014

first online date!

had a date with a lady i met on okcupid. she's a very cool chick. i was super nervous and i was hoping i wouldn't be too cool and scare her off but i think it went well. we talked about our families and our travels. we exchanged digits and i think we might be seeing each other again! since my brother found his soon-to-be wife on okcupid, i decided 'why not?'. i mean, how many rejections from girls that i've never met IRL could i possibly receive? a lot. a lot is the answer. LOL. just a bunch of no responses to clever messages that i spent 1 min composing. what a waste of a minute. do you even know what i could do in a minute? i could name a bunch of things i could do in one minute in one minute! that's the same as a rejection, right? i dont even date much IRL. which is cool because i have plenty of time to do what i need to do, but i think it would be nice to be with someone who shares interests and can laugh and not be offended by things i say. i say a lot of offensive things. theyre usually funny. i laugh anyway. i really do find myself funny. and that's really what's important. so this lady i saw last weekend had "feel free to message me if youre not a douche". so i messaged her and said, "hey! i'm usually not a douche. how are you?". simple. she responded and then we went met for drinks. it was nice. girls online are pretty much full of crap when they say, 'message me if you have more to say that just hi!' or 'i want a nice guy' or 'poop on my chest'. well, maybe not so much that last one, because that's definitely not something i would be into. at least not publicly. in any event, i'd really like to see her again. conversation had a nice flow and seems like we had a lot in common. so do i wait 3 days? do i ask her out on a tuesday for a date on saturday? it doesn't need to be so complicated, does it? does it? does it?

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