i'm going on my first okcupid date today. i figured i would just show up and see how it goes instead of getting all prepared with things to say, topics to discuss, etc. maybe i should. i haven't been having too much luck with online dating. i've had a few conversations that have fizzled out. i was going to have my first okcupid date a couple of weeks ago but she totally flaked out. then she rescheduled. then she flaked out. i get it! you're scared of meeting a totally awesome guy and you don't want to fall in love to madly, deeply, and immediately. it's ok. i rarely have that effect on the ladies.